Friday, June 22, 2012

Nostalgia Journal




This is the first of a series about my “Nostalgia Journeys”-  Revisiting the places where I’ve worked and lived in the Philippines from 1966 to 1973 prior to my emigration to the USA where I lived and raised my family for more than four decades.

Circa 1966 – 1968          Tabangao, Batangas          I Set foot for the first time in 46 years, June 17, 2012.
This place is the most memorable one because it was my very first job after bumming around for 3 months doing nothing after graduation.  Yes, 3 months of bumming around exhilarated  by the absence of homeworks and exams until one day, my late mother told me that I had to pack up and start working with a Construction Company which the owner she knew, starting the coming Monday .  Off to work I went to this place called Tabangao, in Batangas province; a quaint little seaside village adjacent to the Shell Oil Refinery where my employer was a contractor.
I don’t remember how I got to the jobsite but I remember vividly standing in front of the refinery gate like a lost soul.  Here I was, 21 years old, fresh from college, a city boy smacked suddenly in a tiny village with all the construction workers.  I was wearing a white shirt, a school uniform which became my trademark at the jobsite because I didn’t own work clothes. My co- workers laughed at me when they found out that I brought pajamas and party clothes. Where’s the party in Tabangao?
 My foreman I will call Perting, my boss, a dark 40yish good looking man, an electrician by trade who will become my life mentor, and my friend, not necessarily the job itself but how I will get along and relate  with the rest of the group. I will have a separate paragraph about him later.  I was the only engineer in the group and a so called “employee of influence”- being there because of family connection with the owner of the company.  Perting broke me in, not exactly knowing what to do with me because I got nada experience.  He asked me to take care of our field office(shack) and I became a glorified “Tool Boy” and a part time electrical “cable tag artist”. Cable tags are 1”x3”x1/16” tags cut out from lead sheets by hand and individually stenciled with identifying numbers I will never ever forget….50001, 50002, 50003…90001...  I also had to punch 2 small holes on both ends.  I am telling this because this job was my first introduction to the construction world and the pain from the blisters on my hands cutting those lead tags with metal scissors.  I remember shedding some tears during my first week.  I went home after my first weekend and told my late mother that I didn’t want to come back to Tabangao anymore and if she could find me a another job in Manila.  I even showed her my hand blisters.  If you knew my mother, you already know the answer. “Go back there on Monday”.
Our group lived in a rented two story house where everybody sleeps anywhere on the hard floor.  If you happened to be on the lower level, you have to find a space where nobody sleeps overhead of you because of sand from the other guys feet will be raining on you. There are the snorers, loudmouths and the stinkers I had to stay away from to have a peaceful night.  We bathe in the open, in a small creek nearby and pooed by digging in the sand around the thorny aroma bushes by the beach on the way to work in the mornings.  We travelled to and from the refinery by a motorized outrigger- fishing boat(banca) owned by our landlord.  This hell of a place, and all the other ones after this,  I learned to endure and enjoy with “Perting,” our foreman, our boss, always on my side to keep everything within our group in control.  With him, one could never get bored nor be lonely. He led our group not by instilling fear nor commanding authority, but mostly with fairness and real compassion.  I have yet to meet the next person whom I can honestly bestow my respect and admiration.  I really miss the guy.  I do not have much regret in life but one of them is not being able to convey to him my feelings before he died about 10 years ago.  Perting did not have a college degree, an electrician by trade, a poor man, he did not attain wealth, high status or fame but Perting became “The most memorable person” in my life. I was inclined to describe him as “My most Unforgettable Character” but it could also mean something in a negative note and too Reader's DigestyJ.
 I have a lot more stories to tell about this place, mostly humorous, my experiences, my learning process, but this is only a blog, not a juicy novel .  Most importantly, this was the place where it all begun and shaped my destiny into the world of “Engineering and Construction”.
Tabangao, Batangas June 17, 2012